HELPING YOUR CHILD:
THE MISSING LINK
12-WEEK ONLINE PROGRAMME
Assalamu alaikum my dear sister,
I pray that you are well and I pray that you found my 10-days email series valuable and eye-opening, highlighting some of the issues that are taking away the peace and happiness in your home.
I thank you for sending me emails and lovely messages of how you have already seen change and thank those of you for reaching out for further support, advice and suggesting topics for the 12 week online course.
I feel your pain and I hear your desperation to be able to help your child. As a mother, our children are always our deepest concern but connecting with a child who doesn’t want to connect with you, or listen to you is very heart-breaking. I know, I’ve been there.
Seeing your child cry and hurt and not knowing what to do about it goes against the very grain of a parent who wants to fix their child’s every problem so that they don’t suffer through life.
Wanting to give your child the childhood you never had, the opportunities that you didn’t have and the openness to express themselves that was non-existent in our childhood seems like the best formula for raising our children. With all the good intentions and effort that we put into raising our children as happy, pious and productive muslims, why is it so hard?
Of the questions that you have sent me, here are the areas of biggest concern:-
How do you get your child to believe in themselves and try to reach for the stars when they keep saying they can’t?
How do I help my child control their anger and calm down?
How do I help my child manage their obsession with screens?
How do I help my child choose good friends that treat them well?
How do I raise my special need’s child?
How do I help my daughter overcome their struggle with hijab and covering?
How do I help my children be more grateful and satisfied, especially when I are doing everything for them?
How do I talk to my children about Allah?
Our children did not come with a manual and if only they did, you’d buy it and buy every struggling parenting that you know a copy.
But the truth is you don’t need a manual because Allah swt has given you everything you already need to raise your children. He swt chose you for your children and your children for you. He swt placed you together in His perfect wisdom and knowledge. So rest assured that you can do this and you can do this well.
Of course you can. Even if you can’t see it sometimes, I know that you can. I believe in you that you can because I believe in Allah swt.
There is nothing that we cannot achieve or do in life without the help of Allah swt. He can make anything possible and everything easy for us. Somethings come naturally and somethings need practise but everything is possible.
You may need some training and you may need to practise some skills.
You will need an open heart though – open to seeing something new and something different.
You have heard the famous saying that you can’t keep doing the same old thing and expect something new.
So if what you are doing is not working for you, then how about something new?
So I have been putting together a 12-week online course to train you and give you the skill of helping your child come through the issues that they are facing. It is aimed at helping you, their mother bring out the best in them.
So I am inviting you to join me on this amazing 12-week journey to discover your child and to be trained by me personally as to how you can help them overcome their insecurities, their anxieties, their anger, their low-self-confidence, their frustrations and their worries.
Here is the 12-week plan:-
Week 1 – Understanding the way your child thinks
Week 2 – Understanding the way your child feels
Week 3 – Understanding your child’s fitra
Week 4 – Understanding your child’s behaviours
Week 5 – Understanding your child’s insecurities
Week 6 – Low Self-Esteem (Understanding how low self-esteem affects your child’s friendships and helping them to overcome it).
Week 7 – Low Self-Confidence (Understanding how low self-confidence affects your child and helping them to overcome it).
Week 8 – Special Needs (Understanding how having a special needs affects your child and helping your child to reach their potential).
Week 9 – Hijab and Covering (Understanding the impact on our daughters and helping them to overcome their struggles with it).
Week 10 – Anger – (Understanding how anger affects your child and helping them to work through it).
Week 11 – Screen time and boundaries (Setting boundaries for your children in a loving and consistent way).
Week 12 – Bring out the best in you and the best in your child.
In these sessions, I will combine training and coaching so that you get help to implement them into your life also.
This amazing journey starts online from Monday 6th January 2020 at 1pm to 2pm running weekly for 12 weeks (excluding half-term week) inshaa Allah.
The cost is £375 payable for the 12 weeks which can be paid in 3 monthly instalments of £125 or paid in full.
That is amazing value and I know that there is not another course like this so don’t delay as places are limited.
Book your place by clicking reply to this email to reserve your spot for week 2 inshaa Allah.
“Amina’s Parenting Course is like no other parenting course that I have ever been on and for that I am ever grateful. The knowledge is delivered so beautifully that it penetrates the heart and this is what you will experience, insight-based learning. I would recommend to every parent to attend this course and get a fresh perspective on their parenting. You walk away from the course feeling not only fit for the job of a parent but that it is my divine destiny, Alhamdullilah.”
“This course is the best thing I have ever done. It has really turned on its head my understanding of parenting; it has simplified what I had made complicated . I highly recommend! ”
“I would definitely recommend this course to parents because it helps you not just to reconnect with Allah but also helps you to understand your child’s mindset, emotions, nafs and innate nature. It has given me the tools to strengthen my connection with my child and support them through their struggles, Alhamdullilah.”
“This is very different to conventional parenting courses. It fills in the missing gaps where we are not just addressing the behaviour of our children but understanding their thinking and struggles. It is completely aligned with the guidance of our prophet (saw).”
“It was such a relief to come across this course. It has helped me in so many ways. Alhamdullilah, the Happy Home Parenting Course has taught me a lot how to work on myself to be a better mother. I look forward to having a better connection with my children and to raise them in a better way inshaa Allah. Alhamdullilah, its been such a great experience.”
“These Parenting sessions were invaluable and really mind-blowing. I realised that I had always put my needs, thoughts and feelings at the centre of dealing with my children and had placed unachievable expectations on them. Sister Amina helped me at a time when I was stressed about every minute and insignificant detail. The strategies I learnt were life-changing because the weight literally fell from my shoulders. This course is a must for every parent. Not only does it help you, but it helps your children and family and ultimately, a happy home is a blessed one!”
About Amina Hossen
Sr Amina Hossen is a mother of 5 and one of only a handful of Muslim Women Coaches in the UK trained in the Inside-Out Paradigm of Psychology. She is a Transformational Parent Coach, Motivational Speaker and Published Author.
Her approach to coaching helps you to master your human relationships by mastering your spiritual relationship with Allah (swt).
Formerly trained as a Solicitor with her own legal practice, specialising in Islamic Wills, Amina decided to follow her passion, use her life experiences and train as a Coach.
She now helps Muslim Women to reach their highest potential and raise happy and pious children, inshaa Allah.